Happy Valentine’s Day folks! I received a phone call at 7:30 this morning from a ‘man-friend’ who wanted to wish me a wonderful day and expressed that while Valentine’s Day is a day for ‘lovers’ to celebrate their love and we are not quite there YET, he is looking forward to the possibility of our Valentine’s Day next year; A day on which we just might celebrate our unequivocal love for one another....

Happy Valentine’s Day folks!  I received a phone call at 7:30 this morning from a ‘man-friend’ who wanted to wish me a wonderful day and expressed that while Valentine’s Day is a day for ‘lovers’ to celebrate their love and we are not quite there YET, he is looking forward to the possibility of our Valentine’s Day next year; A day on which we just might celebrate our unequivocal love for one another. ...

I was walking down Fifth Avenue the other day.  It was about 30 degrees and I was walking to the beat of my theme music playing in my head.  I was thinking about work and the night before. PAUSE ~ I have had conversations, run ins, emails and phone calls from my past like you would not believe, but that is another story for another day! PLAY ~  The ground was wet, slushy and very dirty.  It’s been snowing a lot in the Northeast.  I...

“She’s a good person. But she’s not you. And though you may find it hard to believe I’ve always waited for you.” Damn him… My heart was racing when I read the email. I was calm, but hurt and disappointed in him and myself. I knew better. I don’t know how we always end up back in each other’s “arms”. I’m not talking about a hug. I’m speaking of intimacy. Not sex; intimacy....

Hey people! Week two! I hope the start of your New Year has been as eye-opening and refreshing as mine. I almost fell back into an old situation. Thank God for maturity. Sometimes you have to move really slowly and assess the situation before you make a major move. In my slow crawl, I learned that while a person’s circumstance may change, and while a person may mature, certain character flaws never go away. You have to know what you can...

Hey people! Week TWO! I hope the start of your New Year has been as eye opening and refreshing as mine. PAUSE ~ I almost fell back into an old situation. Thank God for maturity. Sometimes you have to move really slowly and assess the situation before you make a major move. In my slow crawl, I learned that while a person’s circumstance my change, and while a person may mature, certain character flaws never go away. You have to know what...