“You can’t make all of the people happy all of the time.” I remind myself of that every day. I know we (especially women of color) walk around trying to convince ourselves that we “don’t care what nobody thinks”, but is that really true? If it were, we wouldn’t spend so much time trying to perfect ourselves. I’m not saying that our desire to be better isn’t self motivated, but there is a...

“You can’t make all of the people happy all of the time.” I remind myself of that everyday.  I know we (especially women of color) walk around trying to convince ourselves that we “don’t care what nobody thinks”, but is that really true?  If it were, we wouldn’t spend so much time trying to perfect ourselves.  I’m not saying that our desire to be better isn’t self motivated, but there is a...

I know… I have been pretty silent about my relationship (or the makings of my relationship) with Cullen.  Honestly, I sat down a few times to write, but could not find the words to express how I was feeling or what was going on between us.  Ironically, there is SO much going on and I have an abundance of emotions that I could speak to.  So why the silence?  Well last night while I was talking to him on the phone it came to me.  I am...